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November 29 Catching Up… or at least trying to Two Wednesdays ago, I was bad and didn’t post for the Looking Great in 2008 challenge. Then yesterday my whole freakin’ work day was consumed by one evil woman who loves to torture techs and was unable to post again. So, this will be my attempt at catching you all up on what’s been going on.
Two Wednesdays ago I had lost 2.2lbs. I was thrilled but nervous since the next day was Thanksgiving and who can keep the weight off after a holiday that’s main event is eating? I tried extremely hard and well I failed. The weekend of Thanksgiving I was up 2.4lbs. But now I’m back down and am counting this loss from two Wednesdays ago and saying I had a 0.8lb loss this week. I’m happy that 1. I was able to get back down to my pre-Thanksgiving weight and 2. that I was able to still lose more even after getting back down to my pre-Thanksgiving weight.
I’ve been doing great with keeping up with going to Curves at least three times a week for my workout. Yesterday was the day from hell at work and the last thing I wanted to do was go and workout. Especially since I got to go home early since I worked through my lunch break yesterday, and since I was able to go home and lay my aching head down on a nice soft pillow, and since My Prince came and picked me up so that I could get my car from his house. But I still went, I still worked out really hard, and worked through the pain that felt like my brain was trying to escape from my skull while I jumped around like a bunny rabbit to get my heart rate up. FUN TIMES!
But really, I felt great after my workout and my headache had started to go away after 45 minutes of rattling my brain around in my skull. The best part of my night was going back home and getting some house chores done. I did two loads of laundry, did one load of dishes, went through all of my junk mail that had piled up on my dining room table, and made myself an awesome dinner. I watched Christmas movies all night long and finally passed out on the couch to dream that I was at the beach. If only…
Yesterday I almost had a nervous breakdown (again) from my job and still don’t want to be here today. I called my Mom in near hysterics because of what I went through. I have no desire to relive the experience so sorry but you won’t be getting a recap here. A classmate of mine asked me on Tuesday night, “If you had the choice of quitting your job and moving back home or going to work every day which would you choose?” I laughed and immediately responded with, “I’d quit my job in a heart beat.” His response? “Dam!”
I’m going to do something I should have done when the idea hit me. I’m going to e-mail my Professor today and ask him if he knows of any places that I could go and volunteer at or would be willing to train an under experienced person for a job position and see what he has to say. I need to change my job situation I can’t stay here.
So, on that note… Happy Friday Eve everyone!
~ Fat Chick P.S. You know it was a bad day when the next morning when your manager comes in comes straight to your cubicle and upon seeing you says, "Oh good! You came back!"
P.P.S. Yes, she really did do that. November 26 Thanksgiving VacationIs it really over? I can’t believe how fast Thanksgiving vacation went! It was absolutely wonderful though and I enjoyed every second of each day!
My holiday weekend started on Wednesday at 3:30pm. I was so giddy with excitement when the office manager let us leave an hour and a half early. Once I got home I changed into my gym clothes and raced off to Curves for a forty-five minute workout. Curves was closed that Thursday and Friday as well so I figured I should put in my time since I wouldn’t be able to again until Saturday.
Also, lucky for me, My Prince’s Dad scored us some hockey tickets to the Pens’ game on Wednesday night. We met up at our usual hockey night restaurant, which is a Chinese place within walking distance of my house. I walked there and put in our order and waited for the guys to show up. Unfortunately, the Pens did not win their game. We were all a bit disappointed. But it was good food, good company, and made for a good time regardless of their performance.
Thursday was, of course, Thanksgiving Day and My Prince and I had two scheduled engagements. Our first was a 2:00pm Thanksgiving lunch with My Prince’s family. I love this restaurant that we go to! They had meatless lasagna for the new vegetarian of the group and lots of delicious veggie sides as well. I was happy with my options.
Then we went to my Dad’s house for dinner, which was scheduled for 3:00pm but we of course would not have been able to get there for that time and made it there at 5:30pm. We stuffed ourselves silly yet again. My Dad made green bean casserole that I love for me as well. He wanted to make sure I had a lot of veggie options. He even made a broccoli and carrot mixture that was delicious and had a raw veggie tray for me. I was also expected to eat a piece of pumpkin since it was home made and had no meat in it, YIKES! Overall my Thanksgiving was a lot of fun. I enjoyed spending time with all of the family and My Prince’s family. Usually, after we gobble ‘til we wobble (hehe, saw this on an auto insurance sign on t-day) we make our way over to Hartwood Acres Celebration of Lights to kick off the holiday season. But we were out too late and did not make it out this year. We tucked in for the night because I decided we were going out on Black Friday, something I’ve never done before.
I had a plan, wake up early, hit Wal-mart, and then venture over to the other stores that were in that area. That was exactly what we did with a breakfast stop after Wal-mart. It was great! I wasn’t one of the crazies going and waiting in line at 4am for that half priced computer or plasma tv. I just wanted the black Friday deals and that’s what I got. We went to Office Max, Best Buy, and Barnes & Noble. I bought all of the gifts on my list except for one that won’t be available until Dec. 2 or 4th (I forget which). So, needless to say, my shopping outing was quite successful. After all of that fun I was broke so there wasn’t much we could do the rest of the day. My Prince went home and did a few things he needed to get done and I went home and began wrapping presents. Am I sick? Yes! I’m never this far ahead this time of year. I think I might like black Friday. Later on that evening My Prince’s Mom asked us to join her on a trip to Target. That’s where I fell in love with a ring we saw in the display case and it was 50% off. I drooled all over the counter. Don’t tell anyone, please, lol. Then we went over to Sam’s club and I got a beautiful new book (which I can’t find on the internet, sorry).
Saturday my Mom and I had planned a confrontation with my sister in the early afternoon and she bailed on it. Both my Mom and I agreed that we think she caught on to why she was invited over to Mom’s house because we didn’t tell her why. So, I went to Curves for another 45-minute workout and then met up with My Prince for a nice leisurely lunch out. Unfortunately, My Prince started to feel under the weather so we really didn’t do anything too exciting on Saturday.
On Sunday we watched a Christmas Movie marathon that was playing different Christmas movies all day it was great! I love watching Christmas movies even the cheesy ones. My Prince, his Mom, and I decided to go see the Celebration of Lights that we didn’t see on Thanksgiving. It was beautiful as usual! But before we left My Prince pulled me into a private room and told me he had a surprise for me. He made me close my eyes and hold out my hands. When I was able to open them I saw a ring box sitting in the palm of my hand. I opened it up to find the beautiful ring I was drooling over at Target. He told me he wanted me to have it as a reminder of his love for me until he bought me the other ring (hehe). It was one of the sweetest things he’s ever done for me. The ring is beautiful and if I wore it on that finger I know people would think it was an engagement ring because it’s just that beautiful!
That pretty much wraps up my Thanksgiving holiday. It was great and I’m sad to see that it’s over but now the count down is on for my Christmas break! YAY!!!
~ Fat Chick November 16 Light Up NightIt's that time of year again... where the snow falls, christmas trees go up, and my city decides to decorate for christmas and turn all of their lights on at the same time. I love Light Up Night even though it gets terribly crowded and this year will probably be worse than those in the past because of construction getting in the way. But I don't care.
My evening will start with a walk over to my old office building where (in my opinion) the best tree in the city is. I will be greeted by a large group of children dressed up in their xmas costumes, singing xmas carols, and dancing. Then I will eagerly wait for them to light the brilliant xmas tree before me. Then, just like every year, they will begin a little ice skating show and play the "Xmas Canon in D" and I will proceed to get teary eyed. This is probably my favorite part of the whole night.
Next I will do my best at directing My Prince over the phone how to get into the city without getting blocked and tell him where to park. As I'm talking to him I will walk over to the parking garage to meet him there. Next, we will rush over to the food court to score some dinner and (depending on the time) either eat it there or bring it back to my office building to eat. We will then set up in someone's office and eat while we wait for the fireworks show to begin. We'll watch the fireworks and go back down to the city streets and do whatever we want on a whim.
It's great fun!
I'll take my camera with me and snap a bunch of beautiful pictures. We'll probably stop over at "Santa's from around the World" exhibit. One of my other favorite things to do is walk down the city streets that have lights going across the street over head, from building to building. There will also be a bunch of goodies to try. Like hot apple cider and funnel cake with hot fudge topping. YUM!
This is the my first picture of my favorite tree being lit up last year. Hopefully this year I can get a clearer pic.
Merry Christmas!
~ Fat Chick November 15 Tough LoveTuesday night I did something that was extremely hard to do but was necessary. My sister, Missy, called me for the second time asking me if she and her fiancé could come stay at my place for a few days because her electricity had been turned off due to her not being able to pay the bill. I told her, “No”. Here’s why…
Missy is 27 years old and acts about 16. When we were younger my sister always did better than me in everything. I was constantly jealous of her and wanted to be just like her. She got all the good grades and was the ‘smart’ child of the family. She seemed perfect in every way to everyone around me. It drove me insane!
Then my parents got divorced when I was 16 and she was 18; that was the year my sister lost her brain. She flunked out of three different colleges, has had (at least) five different loser boyfriends, and lacks all of the knowledge and common sense of what it means to be an adult. The only “excuse” I can come up with for her is that my father’s alcoholism and my parent’s divorce messed her up so bad emotionally that it has stunted her mentality and emotional growth to that of a 16 year old.
Missy doesn’t know how to manage money, that she and she alone is responsible for her and her life, and that her fiancé really is just another loser. She has a reoccurring pattern to her life. It goes something like this:
q Find loser boyfriend
q Support him financially (because she always ends up making more money then they do and her job doesn’t pay that well to begin with)
q Live together
q Get engaged
q Become depressed because of financial woes
q Lose fiancé
q Start search for new loser
And rinse and repeat….
Missy has been doing this her entire adult life. It started with her high school “sweetheart” and just continued from there. I washed my hands of my sister’s ways a long time ago. I learned how she works and how she doesn’t learn from her mistakes. My parents and even my grandfather have bailed her out of financial trouble more times than I can count. I think I leant her money a total of 3 times in the earlier years. She never paid me back and when I asked for it back she treated me like I was the bad guy. So, after that happened three times I never leant her money again; I learned very quickly.
Now let me take you back about two weeks ago. Missy called me while at work, hysterical, and after scaring the crap out of me had her fiancé confess to me that their electricity had been turned off and asked if they could come stay with me for a day. I don’t do these kinds of favors for Missy because I feel they just further enable her to continue making the same mistakes over and over again. But this time I let her and her fiancé come over for the night. The next morning they both complained about the bed I provided and were ungrateful for what I did. I decided then and there that I would not let them come over again.
Jump ahead to Tuesday. Missy called my cell phone and work phone about ten times and left voicemails each time. I tried to ignore it because I knew she just wanted something. But finally I relented and answered my phone. After we greeted each other she blurted out, “We need to stay with you again.” This enraged me and I responded with, “It’s more like, can you stay with me?” The conversation just went downhill from there. She told me that they didn’t have the money to pay for their electricity and it had been turned off, again. I told her that I would call her after my class was over to let her know if she could come over or not.
I had to prep myself for what I was going to say. I came up with this, “One time, one night, is one thing. But a second time and over several days is too much. I’m sorry, call Mom.” I had talked to my Mom before I made this call and decided to tell her this. All Missy said was, “ok” three times and we hung up. I could hear the disappointment in her voice and it killed me. I spent the next thirty minutes talking to My Prince telling him how big of a piece of crap I was (of course he told me I wasn’t). I felt awful and had a hard time getting to sleep. But I still wouldn’t change what I did.
I called my Mom on Wednesday to find out if Missy was at her house and she wasn’t. I talked to my Dad as well and he said that she was not there either. So now we have no idea where she went if she went anywhere at all. My Mom is going to have a confrontation with Missy this weekend because she’s been pulling this crap for almost ten years. She simply does not learn from her mistakes.
So now on to me, I’ve gained weight this week I’m ashamed to admit it and I’m expecting a visit from Aunt Flo who has decided that I should be depressed and eating everything in sight. I just feel like I’m in a bad place right now (emotionally).
This has been my life this week. I’m ready for the weekend.
~ Fat Chick November 09 The Twilight Series
I’ve been dying to review this three book series and I’m not finding myself able to put into words just how fantastic they really are. The Twilight Series by:Stephenie Meyer starts with book 1, Twilight:
Isabella just moved in with her Dad and is starting out at a new high school. She ends up sitting next to the most intriguing boy by the name of Edward Cullen. In between trying to adjust to her new life, in a new town, she cracks into the mysterious world of the Cullens’ family and finds herself falling for a vampire. Add a touch of adventure, danger, and mix in romance and you have a thrilling story.
Just when you thought Isabella and Edward’s story was over you are introduced to book 2, New Moon:
In this book one of the characters from the first book comes into the center stage. You get to learn more about the boy Jacob Black who becomes more to Bella than just a young teenager with a crush. It seems Bella cannot escape the paranormal or danger for that matter. In this book our heroine plunges through a storm of heartbreak, rescue, and possibly a happy ending; but not without over coming a few obstacles and emotional hurdles.
In book 3, Eclipse, all of the twists and turns come together putting an end to a few loose knots and opening new beginnings at the same time:
In this book the trio Bella, Edward, and Jacob are thrown together in love, friendship, and war. Now that most of the secrets are revealed to our little group of three we experience how they handle this knowledge and who will survive it and who won’t. Out of the three books I feel this one was the most intense. It has the most bloodshed and emotional turmoil.
Overall I loved this whole series. Even though this series is found in the young adult section of the bookstore it is definitely worth the read. You’d better block out a big chunk of time to start reading any one of these three books because I know I simply couldn’t put it down once I started. I just finished Eclipse last night and just as I was coming down to the last 100 pages it killed me to wait until I had run all of my after work errands to finally finish it.
But just like with any good book or series I was sad to see it come to an end. This has become one of my favorites and I’m sure I’ll be rereading it again in the future so many times that I will be able to recite my favorite excerpts. If I haven't convinced you yet of how good this series is then you can check it out for yourself here.
Have a great weekend, ~ Fat Chick
P.S. I added my Halloween pics from this year, check them out! November 08 Something I read today that has me completely spellbound…
“Do you mind if I do something?” he murmured, his arms tightening around me. “Anything you want.” But he let me go and slid away. “Anything but that,” I complained. He ignored me, taking my hand and pulling me off the bed, too. He stood in front of me, hands on my shoulders, face serious. “Now, I want to do this right. Please, please, keep in mind that you’ve already agreed to this, and don’t ruin it for me.” “Oh, no,” I gasped as he slid down onto one knee. “Be nice,” he muttered. I took a deep breath. “Isabella Swan?” He looked up at me through his impossibly long lashes, his golden eyes soft but, somehow, still scorching. “I promise to love you forever – every single day of forever. Will you marry me?” There were many things I wanted to say, some of them not nice at all, and others more disgustingly gooey and romantic than he probably dreamed I was capable of. Rather than embarrass myself with either, I whispered, “Yes.” “Thank you,” he said simply. He took my left hand and kissed each of my fingertips before he kissed the ring that was now mine.
Chapter 20 Compromise Pages 459-460
~ Fat Chick P.S. Would you all think me a total sap if I admitted to crying over this? November 07 Weigh DayToday is my weigh in day for Tales from the Scales and I am happy to report that I am down .6lbs. This isn't as big of a loss as last week but I'm still happy with it. I'm hoping that the scale keeps counting down for me through the rest of this week. That would be amazing. Also, a small victory for me is that I moved from one set of numbers down to another set of numbers. Yes, I'm still too chicken to tell you exactly what my numbers are but I will say that I was livinging in a weight range that completely freaks me out. You know how you have that "special" number that if you get there you will do just about anything to get the number down (even get back to your previous weight, even though you still aren't happy with that number)? Yeah, well I reached that number and even went over it by a few. I'm happy to be back down in this number range but I still have a lot of work to do. I hope to reach the 10lb. loss mark soon!
To all of you who are participating in the 2008 challenge good luck and keep up the good work!
~ Fat Chick November 06 Nothing too exciting...There's not much to add from the last time I posted. I'm on day 15 of being a vegetarian which means I have 15 more days to go for it to be a whole month. So, far this new lifestyle hasn't thrown me through too many loops. There are only two main down sides to this and they are: 1. it's hard to eat vegetarian at the places that My Prince and I eat out to regularly and 2. some of the cravings are hard to ignore. It's kind of a catch 22. When I think of eating meat I think of those poor animals and what they go through before getting to my plate but at the same time some dishes just smell so good.
I don't really miss meat though. The part that's proving to be the real challenge is the "Vegan" part of me. I want to stay away from dairy and chemicals as much as possible. But you know as well as I do that when you eat out you're lucky to get a vegetarian option let alone a vegan option. The exciting part is trying out all of these new foods. I'm starting to take a liking to tofu. If done right, tofu can be rather yummy!
I just told my Dad this weekend that I was eating vegetarian and he had no problems with it. He even told me that he'd have plenty of veggies for me at Thanksgiving. My Mom took it rather well too, she was just bummed out that I wouldn't be learning how to make her cabbage rolls. She said she doesn't know the measurements and that you have to taste it as you make it, so that kind of makes it hard for me to make it.
It has put a bit of a strain on my relationship with My Prince. He's not telling me that I shouldn't be doing it but he has expressed his surprise, concerns, and even sadness over my choice. It's weird how much a food choice can change things when you don't think it makes that much of a difference to begin with.
But enough of that already, on the up side of things in another ten days we'll be celebrating Light Up Night here in 'Da Burgh. Also, it was a great night for sports here last night. Our hockey team walked away with a 5-0 shut out against the Devils and the Steelers walked away with a victory against the Ravens 38-7, YAY!!!!
I have a quiz tonight in my class, wish me luck!
Happy Tuesday,
~ Fat Chick |
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